Unfortunately, there are times when a young person can't stop his or her using on one's own volition. They know there is a problem but because of the fog, they are not able to reach out for help or assistance. Only when something disastrous reveal a need for help. Regrettably, those situations can have life long ramifications such as legal issues, financial impacts, or death. Did your gut tell you something was going on?
If you have a son or daughter who present something that doesn't quite fit right, investigate thoroughly as to what the source may be. Here are some considerations:
1. If your communication levels or styles change, ask why.
2. If others are raising concerns or posing questions that are difficult to answer, get them answered.
3. Trust your instincts until proven otherwise. I am not talking about being obsessive but instead if your gut flips, check it out.
4. Make sure there are people in your child's life that can be a support. Therapists, mentors, coaches, etc. can be professionals that have a connecting relationship and have good radars as to what is working well and what might be a concern. Furthermore, they can respond quickly in crisis.
5. Make sure you are taking care of your own self. Self-care and healthy boundaries help you and help your child.
If you or if you know someone is having difficulties with a child, you are welcome to respond for some ideas.
Best, James
www.atg-family.com
james@atg-family.com or follow me on twitter: jamesmortonjr
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